Do You Think Your Husband is Cheating? 5 Signs to Look For

The number of husbands having affairs seems to be quite common these days. While that is a sad fact, the good news is it really is easy for you to catch your cheating husband, especially when you know what to look for.

When you really start to believe your husband can be cheating on you, and you start to pay more attention to the signs, it will become very clear whether he is or isn't. I was one who swore my husband would never do this. But once I paid more attention, yes, he had every sign and then some. And after I had proof, no way for him to deny it.

One thing to remember. Do not confront them until you are absolutely sure! You will get denials unless you have absolute proof.

5 signs to look for to see if your husband is cheating on you are below.

1 - He Changes his Appearance

If your husband changes his appearance in some way, it can be a sign of cheating. If he starts to wear a different type of clothes, this includes underwear, or if he starts to work out when he never did before, wears cologne he never did are some signs he could be cheating.

2 - His schedule starts changing

Does you husband who never worked late before, work late now? Or does one who always worked overtime, work even more overtime? Is he hard to get ahold of during lunchtime all of a sudden? Or does he go on more business trips than he did before? Or, is he all of a sudden starting to spend time with friends, without you, when he didn't before? Does he go out on the weekend, even during the day, with the excuse of going to a friends house, or going out with a friend when that is not normal for him? Or perhaps he has to run to the store more than normal for something, lowes, home depot for instance. Then hours later tells you traffic was bad or the stores were busy.

3 - A Loss of Interest in Family

This could be one of the major signs a husband may be cheating. If your husband once was very involved with your family all of a sudden doesn't have any interest in doing things with you or your kids or other family members, it may be a sign your husband is cheating. He may also seem to always have something else to do in order to avoid being around family and would prefer to be alone or go somewhere without you.

4 - Guilt

If your husband is having an affair, he may be feeling guilty and it can work in different ways. He may show you more attention or he will have a lot anger and resentment towards you. This seems to be what most cheating husbands do. The anger seems to give cheating husbands a reason not to feel so guilty. They start blaming you for every single thing wrong in their lives and get more and more angry at you. In most cases, the wife is hit with this and has no idea why or what she has done wrong. It just seems like their husband has gone off the deep end. A very good sign your husband is cheating.

5 - His Phone Use

One other sign that your husband may be cheating on you is if his phone use has changed or if he starts hiding it from you. Does he try to sneak phone calls? Does he go for alot of walks or outside and take his cell phone with him? Does he text message an excessive amount? If you can view the useage log, which is a good way to find out who he is talking to or texting and may be helpful in determining if there is someone else. This should be done because your husband may be cheating on you.

In the case of his cell phone being a "work" phone it is a little harder to view and use this as proof of anything going on.

The above are just a few of the many signs that your husband may be a cheater and are the easiest to catch and watch for. It is very hard to find out that your husband is cheating on you, but it is important for you to know for sure. He can be putting your health at risk first of all, and there are other things to consider not only in what you will do if he is, but how you will confront him. Also, if you are a parent, you have your children's safety and wellbeing to take into consideration.